Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Re-aquainting


Ok check this scenario. There is a person you have not seen in a long time. Something awkward happened between you two but you want to see them again (regardless whether that awkwardness gets closure or not). How exactly does one go about doing it?

Well for starters you need to think about how much this person means to you. Not necessarily in a romantic sense, but in anyway, shape, or form. If the person is just someone you want to see whats up with and you do not care for them, its probably a waste of time to talk to them again. That's your natural curiosity kicking in (all humans have it).

Does this person have a good history with you? Maybe you just had an awkward meeting in the first place and its scratching the back of your mind to make things work. I also advise against any reconciliation. Things happen, good or bad. You can't be in everyone's good graces.

Alright here is the most common scenario. There is a person you used to be really close to. So close you called them best friend at one point. You miss how you could just talk to them about anything but they drifted away somehow. I would advise you to try to reconnect. If they put in the same effort as you, then its definitely worth getting back into. There is a flipside. Some people are just ready to move on. Friends come and go espeacially in todays fast paced world. As much as you miss the things that used to with them, life is going to go on, wether you want it to or not. These kinds of friends generally arise around high school and fade in college.

I hope everyone reading finds this informative or at least midly interesting.

"The hours pass and she still counts the minutes that I am not there I swear I didn't mean for it to feel like this." - Bruised - Jacks Mannequin

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